Hello, everyone! Yesterday I left off my ‘B’ entry after
talking about books. That topic leads me to my first topic of the ‘C’ entry:
Children
Children
Children – which feels slightly strange to type, since I
fully confess that I say kids more often, and I’m not taking about baby goats
(though internet videos about baby goats jumping off of each other do amuse my ‘aw’
cells). Books lead me to children simply because my job is basically to get
children excited about books, about reading, and about exploring new topics and
ideas. My job, in the simplest and probably least eloquent terms, rocks. The
children at my school do, too. I don’t have any children ‘of my own’ – as many
people choose to put it. I am not a mom, and have no plans to become one,
unless I adopt more dogs. I like children, and am a proud aunt many times over,
but I know I’m not meant to have my own. This is one thing that I wish people
would at least accept about me and so many other people. Some of us are not
meant to have children, and some don’t want to have them. This does NOT mean
that we don’t like children, or that we will change our minds once we meet ‘the
right person’ – the right person will understand, agree with us, and support
our choices. I love being around children – of all ages – as they have so much
innocent Curiosity.
Childlike Curiosity
The desire to know more, to learn more, to experience more –
this is a wonderful thing! I know that some forms of this sense of active
wonder can be potentially dangerous, but every day I see so many young minds
light up due to a spark of Curiosity that helps their worlds grow exponentially
as they learn about themselves, others, and the world (and universe) around
them. When I have a student come up to me and tell me something that they have
learned or are excited about, or want to know more about, I fill with
happiness. When that student asks what books we have in the library to help him
or her learn about that topic, or where they can find the information online or
in an encyclopedia, the happy feeling bubbies…and then, a Curious classmate
asks what they are reading or talking about. Then, the Chain of Curiosity adds
a new link, and can only grow and branch out from there. I wish that more
adults would remember what it was like to have that desire to learn and grow,
and that more of us would return to the innocence of Curiosity – I think we
would make amazing leaps and bounds in so many areas of Life! The innocent
version of Curiosity – Childlike Curiosity – encompasses that innocence that
can lead to so many amazing results! I
don’t mean childish, but childlike – full of wonder, joy, and excitement with
every new discovery, collecting knowledge and experiences and absorbing them
like parched sponges.
Collections/Collecting
We are all Collectors. We collect experiences throughout our
lives. At times, we collect items with those experiences – as a result of the
experience, or to help us remember the experience and what we learned from it.
Collections can be passed down through generations of a family – stories,
figurines, handmade quilts – or collections of an individual’s experiences can
be immortalized in a diary or journal, in a biography (or autobiography –
though I am of the camp that wonders why we are telling the life stories of
cars). These experience Collections can be shared while we are alive, via
memoirs – or tabloid headlines, depending on the individual – and stories
gathered by family members and shared to help know our family history.
Sometimes we don’t know why we keep what we keep until someone passes on and we
realize that, to us, that item or story represents that person and our
relationship with him or her. Sometimes, our collections get out of control,
and we end up with a mess – either in our homes or in our hearts – and we need
to do something to regain control over our Consumption.
Consuming/Consumption
We are all Consumers. We consume resources – I don’t know
about you, but I like the whole living thing, so I plan on maintaining my
Consumption of air and resources enough to maintain my living status – but I do
my best to not over Consume. Am I completely successful? Nope. I fully own
that. I am, however, constantly working on it. I may not want to have my own
children, but I want to support those here already as well as those to come –
so I need to make sure my Consumption does not deplete or completely screw up
their resources and planet. There’s a saying from somewhere completely
intelligent (nope, no clue where) that we don’t inherit the world from our
parents, but we borrow it from our children. Keeping that – and my more than
400 students per year - in mind, I try to consider what my actions, both
individual and as a whole picture, do to work toward or against that loan. I
happen to live in a state where recycling and green living are widely accepted,
and being green is something of which we are pretty darn proud. I recycle,
probably to ridiculous amounts at times; I reuse items as much as I can, though
I try to not go completely overboard; I am constantly trying to reduce my
carbon footprint and the amount of sheer…hm, C word…oh, sheer Crap that I have.
I prefer memories to trinkets, pictures to stuff, live plants to cut flowers,
and hugs and warm wishes – and maybe a night out with friends or family – over physical
gifts. Do I appreciate the physical gifts that I receive? Absolutely! The fact
that someone thinks of me, wants to celebrate something with me – that is the
best gift to me. Right now I am working
on yet another purging of my material goods. I prefer the vibes that go with a
clean and open place. Clearing out the items I have Consumed is not easy for
me. I have ADHD – not an excuse, but definitely a factor in my life – and that
condition contributes to my often having difficulty when I work to clear out
the stuff that has become crap to me but may become a favored treasure to
someone else. So, I find ways to help me cut the crap, maintain the treasures,
and not lose my ever-loving-mind in the process. Except for my Books (reference
to my B entry!). I have major difficulty giving those up, reading as much as I
do. However, do I consider that a failing? Nope! I can collect – I just work to
do my best to keep it under control (and as a librarian, I also have the
tendency to keep it pretty organized – BONUS!). I know that as a society and as
a human race we can do the same with our lives – control the crap, keep the
childlike curiosity, and in the end, have taken the world left to us by
preceding generations and turn it into something tremendous for those who will
follow after.
So, Come on! Let’s Create Beauty!
Thanks for joining me for my 3rd A-to-Z entry,
that of the Cool letter C! I hope to see you back here tomorrow, wherever my
mind decides to meander for the letter D!
JBB
It's so nice to find another blogger who isn't a mom. Do you know how rare that happens? I'm a mom to my dog--does that count! I think I feel like my books are my children--I'm creating them and giving them to the world. I don't have to worry about them becoming trouble-making teenagers, either!
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